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NightRose: It’s fine. I’m not thin myself, I’m an AUS 12 usually. But that’s the thing, I would never judge anybody based on their weight and say that just because they are a certain size that they can’t be beautiful. That’s because I know that self perception is warped, my idea of big is not big to someone else. Two people can be the same size but have different health level depending on their life style and natural body type and genetic. Every one can be and will be beautiful, as a photographer, your job is to see that and capture it. While I know I have my ideas of size, I also know that I have issues with numbers (even and odd) and can be a very exacting person which is very damaging. I found that, in trying to let go of all of that, it just made me happier and my work better. Darn it. I may not have made any sense.

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Anyone consider that you might be all thinking along a different line when you consider the word ‘fat’? Over an Australian size 12 is fat to me, and a 10 is curvy. But my perception is warped by  years of self abuse so who knows.

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And you sound like you don’t deserve an internet connection and working limbs, but you don’t see me being a douche (:

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Wow. You are so witty.

Pathetic.

If you call yourself a photographer and yet you can only capture beauty in its most shallow form then you, my dear, are insufficient.

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LOL I sincerely hope you’re not serious because if you are, then your perception of beauty is warped. There is beauty in everything, whether someone is big or small, short or tall, white, black, yellow, green, blue. It’s about capturing beauty, not submitting to some of of social expectation.

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