I really find it incredibly sad that they are telling her how amazing she is just to be nice to her and make her feel good. They aren’t doing her any favors and with their false encouragement she is never going to get any better. I just don’t understand why people feel they can’t be truthful with their friends. I would rather a friend come to me a say “Listen, I know you love to do this but you really have a lot to learn” then BS me about how great I am and make me look like to total fool!