MKO—It wasn’t so much a statement about you as it was my own preference regarding privacy. I am just careful as to never mention names. I always post online photos with password protected hosting sites and as for facebook, I am careful to select certain ones only.
In any case, I’m sure after a while, most wedding photographers would be able to write volumes about the day. I don’t think any photographer has done a wedding season and not shaken his/her head (in private) at least a few times. As long as the bride and groom are happy though, all the quirky little things don’t matter though.