Oh privacy is important, but seeing as this failed bride thought my aunt and I were going to be her slaves for an entire day and is generally quite rude to my family I couldn’t care less about her ever seeing this. It is sad, though, to see so much effort and planning and happiness go to waste.
Wedding weirdness is all the fun of going to me. If you ever write that book be sure to let us know. It’d be a good read.