My first thoughts… The OP is a fauxtog trying to make another fauxtog look bad. OR the bride, perfectly happy with the outcome was told by another tog that she used a faux And got her ruffles feathered. Either way, this post was never about whether she should pay or not. It’s all about trying to out someone, and cause some stir and drama within the faux pack in this area. Faux packs are quite brutal. I think once this forum matures, you’ll find it happening quite regularly. Try not to get sucked in like you have.
OP, move on to something else more important in your life